Sending of the email is done by the function uservalidationbyemail_request_validation(). This function is in mod/uservalidationbyemail/lib/functions.php. The function itself is called in start.php by the function uservalidationbyemail_disable_new_user() which is executed when a new user registers an account. The uservalidationbyemail_request_validation() function is also called when you re-sent the validation email as admin on the "Inactive users" page in the admin section of your site.

Does the validation email reach the user, if you re-sent it via the admin section? You could also check the mailserver log on your server to see if the validation email goes out (either by re-sending the email or by creating a test account or even testing both). If the email goes out, the problem is not on your server or with your Elgg installation at all. If the email does not go out, then you really need to do some more thorough testing. In this case I would still look for some 3rd party plugin that causes the issue as it is very unlikely that only the validation emails should not get sent if every other email notification works.

My email verifications get spamed. I tryed to change to email verification message in this flolder.

Elgg/mod/uservalidationbyemail/languages/en.php

But it changed nothing in the verfication email. 

I want to change the message so this way Gmail doed not viw  it as spam.

But

I cant change it HELP

@Luis Teran

community\languages\en.php

This where I found the coding for the emailing...!

A nice idea but not a very good idea without safeguards like you approving each post otherwise some idiots will think its a great idea to click on the link a couple of hundred times....

I'm working on something similar for the html parts of my web site to post a notice on the dashboard whenever a page is updated - though its only visible to the admin.