just have a browse thru the code to verify how other plugins do it, should be the same kind of code, but i cannot say without reading all the different plugins' code ;-)

Thanks again Mr. Dhrup ;) it works perfectly..

For anybody who want's to remove some profile links simply go to the class= user_menu in each plugin and remove it. 

which file should i edit exactly coz i want to remove the friends of  and the profile