Edit links (menu) under profile picture to be same for all viewers

Concerning that list of links (the menu) underneath the profile pictures (default items: Add friend, Friends, Friends of, etc.):

I want that list to be the same whether you are viewing your own profile or someone else's but I can't figure out how to change the elements viewed when its your own profile

So, it's easy to add items viewed on other's profiles via  elgg/mod/profile/views/default/profile/menu/links.php, but where does one access the view for when you're logged it on your own profile page?

Also, how do you edit the inclusion of links that are added to the profile page via plugins (example: I have the "publications" plugin installed, and it automatically places itself at the bottom of the profile menu list, and I do not want it to do this).