Displaying Videos and links when posting url and links in Wire and Message box

Hi.

Can you please let me know if there is any working plugin that helps display Videos and snapshots if the url placed in a Post / The wire?

I tried almost all plug in but none of them shows the videos or snapshot of the link being posted in wire.

I installed plugin  embed_extended_v2.0.2 but it shows videos only in the message box but not in the wire and the activity section. Only a URL is displayed in the activity and the wire which nowadays is a put off for users 

I think today sharing of videos has become very pop and a community website can rarely succeed if it does not offer this functionality. 

Thank you for your suggestions and help.