I need a profile plugin

Hi guys, i'm making a school social networking site, i'm not programmer. So i need a profile that can determine age, gender, class od, graduated year and so on. Is there any plugin that provide these options? The kind that you see in friendster and facebook, where you can determine the year and date with a puldoown options. And i need an avanced search plugin also, so users can find their friends easily base on the criteria that a school site should have.

And if should make these plugins, how do i do that ?? Can anyone teach me ??

:):):) Thanx guys, i know that these request are to much, but i hope you guys can help me, thx.