serious page load time

I'm having serious page load issues with elgg running on Win2k3/Apache 2 /php5/mysql5 , I've done everything I can think of an still can't get most pages to load in under 30 seconds, some seem to take up to 45 seconds, it's crazy, tried installing latest 1.6 same issue,. Anyone have any hints on this. Running in a root directory of a third level domain such as "http://community.domain.com/" Runs just a serious pain waiting for each page, tried removing all widgets, nothing on the site at all.

LINKS: to domains, Accesslog Errorlog