Easily Modifyable Theme for Non Tech-Savvy

Hi there,

I've been using Elgg for a little while and I am having a hard time finding a theme Im satisfied with. I want a theme with a custom header,so that I can make it 'our own'.

Currently using Awesome Theme, and liking it but finding some parts about it I don't quite like. The OhYes! theme is great, but I can't figure out how to add a header.

Currently my site looks like this at http://paganways.org - any suggestions for the tech challenged?